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Day Eight: Give Back Mission to Express Gratitude

Today is the eighth day of my mission to spread kindness and help others. In case you don’t know what I’m talking about, please read: Join My Give Back Mission to Spread Kindness and Say Thank You.

Having a baby is always a life-altering event. While all four of my pregnancies and birth stories were slightly different there was one thing the same – I was able to bring home my babies within 48 hours of giving birth. My births were uncomplicated and considered routine (although it never feels routine at the moment).

For families who give birth to a premature baby, nothing is routine. The birth is just the beginning of the story. It is just the beginning of a long road filled with fear, long hospital stays, and worry. Your baby is placed into the care of the doctors and nurses at the NICU (Neonatal Intensive Care Unit), while you watch, pray, and hope for the day when you can bring home your baby.

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Preemies Today, is a Washington, DC organization that advocates for the needs of families experiencing the traumatic event of a premature birth. This non-profit provides resources, education, support, and helps to build a community of parents going through similar experiences.

From the moment you give birth, Preemies Today is there to support families by delivering preemie care packages to hospitals in the Washington, DC metropolitan area. They also organize family outings, preemie playgroups, preemie support groups, infant-loss support groups, parent-to-parent mentoring programs, and a take a break program to provide families with meals and support.

PBJack_SmallLogo1On April 28, Preemies Today will mark its 10th Anniversary with a special fundraiser co-hosted by PB & Jack in Fairfax, Va. PB & Jack opened in December as a supervised play area for kids to crawl, run, climb and play – while you relax or take classes. A portion of the day’s proceeds will be donated to Preemies Today. The event will run from 12 pm to 5 pm and feature children’s entertainment, face painting, balloons, cupcakes and raffle items.

Also in support of Preemies Today’s NICU Baby Showers, PB & Jack will be collecting new or gently used baby clothes in sizes preemie and newborn. Donations will be collected from March 30 through April 28.

Please consider supporting this organization, which has helped many families in the Washington, DC area. I plan on doing a drive within my daycare to collect clothes, which I will deliver to PB & Jack in support of Preemies Today.

If you can’t attend the PB & Jack fundraiser, or don’t have clothes to donate, consider donating to Preemies Today in remembrance of a special person or in celebration of a special occasion. Click here to learn how you can donate.

Good Deed Idea of the Day

Today, I am going to show my neighbors I care with a special care package of baked goods. Nothing says I’m thinking about you more than some yummy treats. Whether it’s your neighbor, your co-worker, or your grandmother who lives alone, offering baked goods is definitely a way to spread some kindness. Why wait for the annual cookie exchange during the holidays to do it? And with the snow we are expecting in the Washington, DC area I can’t think of a better time to get baking!

 

Finding the Community I Never Knew I Wanted

I started Tiny Steps Mommy alone in front of my computer, but I discovered that no one can do anything alone and be successful. We all need support. We all need a community. And I am so thrilled to be part of a community of local women who understand, guide, and teach me everyday.

I was always a joiner. In high school, I was an over-joiner. I participated in everything from cheerleading and drama to student government and clubs like Students Against Drunk Driving (SADD). In college, I was editor of the student newspaper and I even briefly joined a sorority.

Interestingly, once I finished college and became a Mom, I didn’t think about joining anything. I was always too busy managing my day-to-day life. I occasionally volunteer as team mom for my son’s sports teams and I sometimes volunteer in the classroom, but I never participate in my community association and I am basically just a dues paying member of our PTA. I didn’t think I needed or wanted a community outside of my family and small group of friends.

I realize how wrong I was. It is something I was missing and I didn’t know it. Thanks to some amazing local moms with a shared entrepreneurial spirit, I have discovered a new community. These women, many of whom I met online, are extremely supportive and generous. They understand what it is like to be a mother, but to need an outlet. They understand how to offer advice and share everything they have learned in order to help the newer members of this “club.” They are quick to offer kind words and tell you that “Moms Rock.” They give you the encouragement to keep going or in my case, keep writing.

A human being is a part of the whole, called by us, “Universe,” a part limited in time and space. He experiences himself, his thoughts and feelings as something separated from the rest — a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness. This delusion is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to our personal desires and to affection for a few persons nearest to us. Our task must be to free ourselves from this prison by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature in its beauty. Nobody is able to achieve this completely, but the striving for such achievement is in itself a part of the liberation and a foundation for inner security. - Albert Einstein

If you are feeling like an island onto yourself, then open yourself up to new possibilities. Trust that little voice in your head and take a chance. You may be surprised to learn that what you never knew you wanted is waiting right around the corner.

Please checkout my list of local Mom-Owned Blogs/Businesses on the Links page on Tiny Steps Mommy and please visit the growing list of amazing moms in my community. You know who you are and I am grateful for finding the community I never knew I wanted or needed!

Do you belong to a community? Please share your experiences? If you are thinking of starting a blog or a local mom-owned business and you need support, I want to give back. Please e-mail me at nicoledash@gmail.com or reach out to me on the Tiny Steps Mommy Facebook page.